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Ilene Nelson

Ilene Nelson, age 78, of Carrington, ND, passed away Thursday, October 2, 2014, at her home surrounded by her family.

Ilene Adeline Erdelt was born on July 17, 1936, in Ellendale, ND, to Max and Lydia (Link) Erdelt. She met and fell in love with Roger Nelson of Juanita, ND. They were married on February 28, 1959. She worked as a waitress, helped manage the family owned gas station in Grace City, ND, and worked various other jobs as her children grew up. In 1992, she and Roger moved to Barlow, ND, where they lived until Roger’s passing on September 10, 2007.

In November 2007, she moved to Carrington, where she resided until her passing. She was employed at Bank Forward until September 2014.

She enjoyed gardening, card playing, trying her luck at the casino and will be remembered for her hard work ethic and her compassion for her family.

Ilene is survived by 5 daughters, Cheryl Paulson, Bismarck , ND, Shirley (Jeff) Malarkey,  Devils Lake , ND,  Karen (Lynn) Flemmer, Barlow, ND, Kathy Nelson, Carrington, Debra (Chad) Whetham , Jamestown  ND; 2 sisters, Alice (Raymond) Schwan,  Las Gatos,  CA, Maxine (Dave) Funk, Derry, PA; 1 brother,  Max (Darlene), Jacksonville, FL;  8 grandchildren, Sarah Williams, Bismarck, Paul Malarkey, Adam  Malarkey,  Daniel Malarkey,  all of Devils Lake, Dillon Flemmer, Abigail Flemmer, both  of  Barlow, Megan Whetham,  Madison Whetham,  of Jamestown;  9 great-grandchildren, Brandy Olson, Bismarck, Alexis Williams, Dawson Williams, all of  Bismarck,  Olivia Malarkey,  Emma Malarkey,  Kole Malarkey,  Kalby Malarkey,  Elcee Malarkey,  all of  Devils Lake,  Jasmine Flemmer, Barlow, and another due in  February, 2015; 1 great great-grandson, Bentley Barden, Bismarck.

 

FUNERAL SERVICE:

Evans Funeral Home, Carrington, ND

DATE AND TIME:

Tuesday, October 7, 2014 at 2:00PM

BURIAL:

Grace City Cemetery, Grace City, ND


Posted Condolences:

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Name: Lucy Gayman

Date: 10-7-2014

Message: I was a young girl in Ellendale, ND when I first met Ilene and her siblings. She was always working. So positive and fun to be around. What a lovely lady. When in Carrington visiting my sister, I would try to make it up to the Chieftain to at least say Hello. 

 

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Name: S.Rubio

Date: 10-7-14

Message: I would like to express my condolences at this time to your family. The Bible is a great source of encouragement at times like this. A comforting thought is at Revelation 21:3,4, where it states "...And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry be anymore the former things have past away". This scripture gives us hope for the future! You can also find comfort in Acts 24:15 - Death does not end it all. May Jehovah bring you comfort and peace during this difficult time.

 

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Name: LeAnna Brown & family

Date: 10/7/2014

Message: I am sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Just remember that she isn't in pain anymore and she is with your dad. They are both watching over you. You now have 2 guardian angels!! God will give you the strength that you need to get through this difficult time.

 

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Name: Schuldheisz

Date: 10-6-14

Message: so sorry to hear of your loss. god bless you all.

JOE

 

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Name: Kathy Lureen

Message: My sympathy to the family of Ilene Nelson. I remember her from Grace City. Always busy and had a great garden. My how her family grew. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

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Name: Al and Sandy Trader

Date: 10-5-14

Message: To the Nelson Family,

Sending our deepest sympathy, prayers, and hugs. I enjoyed working with Ilene at the Grade school.

 

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Name: Maxine Funk

Date: 10/04/2014

Message: You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss my sister and love to Cheryl, Shirley, Karen, Kathy and Debra From, Aunt Maxine and Uncle Dave

 

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Name: Melody Camp

Date: October 3,2014

Message: My brother, Bernie, called me to tell me of the passing of your mother.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I remember going to your house and playing.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.